Today, I can say that more and more souls on the planet are spiritually awakened and enlightened, and I am happy about it. Although the path might seem bumpy and chaotic, the purpose is divine and eternal.
In fact, I wish every soul out there to be awakened from it’s deep sleep state so we get to have a more divine experience with all spiritual beings on this planet.
However, the journey isn’t a smooth one.So much that it could also break your relationships while you are on this path. So here in this post, I thought I should address the question: Why does spiritual awakening break your relationships?
Break as in not exactly a breakup or refraining from your loved ones; it might also be something like you travelling totally on a different plane or at a frequency than theirs, thereby leaving you feeling like the odd one out or being unheard or not belonged to.
So let’s get to the details on spiritual awakening and how it might impact your relationships.
Before we begin, let’s first understand what a spiritual awakening is all about.
What is a spiritual awakening?
Spiritual awakening unfolds as an introspective and transformative process, marked by heightened awareness and a profound shift in consciousness.
It’s a journey that leads individuals to question their very existence and purpose, fostering a deeper understanding of the self and the interconnectedness of all things. This awakening often manifests through a heightened sensitivity to the present moment, increased empathy, and a profound desire for authentic living.
The Impact of Spiritual Awakening
As individuals traverse the path of spiritual awakening, positive transformations become evident. This journey becomes a vessel for self-discovery, unlocking layers of authenticity and compassion. The newfound awareness allows individuals to perceive life through a different lens, fostering personal growth and a profound sense of purpose.
However, like I mentioned earlier, this transformative journey is not without its challenges, especially within the realm of relationships. The shift in priorities and values can create a rift, challenging the dynamics of partnerships, friendships, and familial ties.
Why spiritual awakening breaks your relationships?
Let’s look into four key points that might contribute to our analysis.
1. Misalignment of Values
Ah, this is deep. Anyone on their awakening journey has to understand that we are shown our very core nature. Hence, all the accumulated values over the years might not look the same or be comfortable anymore.
Profound shifts in perspectives, values, and priorities during spiritual awakening can lead to misalignment in relationships. What once felt harmonious may suddenly reveal disparities, creating a sense of disconnection.
I felt this very soon after my awakening days, and it’s only getting deeper day by day. Friends, parents, relatives, even strangers, for that matter… I could see a match nowhere in either of them that could match my new-found values or frequency level.
2. Communication Struggles
I am a Gemini, and you would know how much communication is important for us Geminis as an air sign! Okay! Maybe communication is vital for all. I do understand. But having to struggle to convey even the basics—to walk on eggshells constantly and be unable to convey what we truly feel—is quite exhausting!
Articulating the intricacies of a spiritual awakening experience can be challenging. The evolving perspectives and deep internal shifts may be difficult to express, leading to communication breakdowns and a sense of isolation from loved ones.
In my case, eventually I had to distance myself from voicing my thoughts to my loved ones, as I felt this might not be received by them on the right note! I mean, I could no longer see values or beliefs aligned with theirs, showing me how much more evolved I was in my awakening journey.
3. Emotional Distance
The deep introspection and personal growth experienced during spiritual awakening can sometimes lead to emotional distance in relationships. Partners may feel disconnected as one person embarks on an internal journey that the other may find challenging to comprehend.
I had to shut down my emotional side totally as I could see things clearly for what they are, like feeling unheard of my emotions and mental struggles. This allowed me to walk the path alone, and I am totally fine with it. Like they say, walking alone is better than walking with people who make you feel lonely.
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4. Impact on Intimacy
Another major reason for relationship turbulence during spiritual awakening stems from intimacy. Intimacy, both emotional and physical, can be affected during spiritual awakening. The evolving sense of self may influence how individuals express and receive affection, requiring a recalibration of intimacy within the relationship.
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Navigating Relationship Changes During Spiritual Awakening
To navigate the changes that spiritual awakening brings to relationships, open communication becomes paramount. Sharing personal transformations and spiritual experiences fosters understanding between individuals. Encouraging mutual respect for evolving perspectives allows for a more harmonious transition.
Finding common ground is another essential aspect. While individual growth is celebrated, it’s crucial to identify shared values and goals that can form the foundation of the relationship. Embracing the evolution of both individuals within the relationship allows for a dynamic and supportive connection.
Balancing the journey of self-discovery with the dynamics of a relationship requires patience and empathy. Partners may need to adapt to each other’s evolving perspectives, fostering an environment where both can grow individually and together.
It’s essential to recognise that the process is not always linear. Individuals and relationships are unique, and the impact of spiritual awakening varies. Some relationships may strengthen as both partners embark on their individual journeys, while others may face challenges that require intentional effort to overcome.
The ripple effect on family dynamics: Family relationships can undergo significant shifts during spiritual awakening. Established roles and expectations may be questioned as individuals redefine their identities. This process can lead to a reevaluation of family dynamics, creating both moments of understanding and potential sources of tension.
How do you deal with spiritual awakening and relationship challenges?
1. Enhanced Communication Skills
Investing time in developing effective communication skills becomes crucial. This includes active listening, expressing feelings clearly, and fostering an open dialogue to bridge understanding.
I started to work on finding a common ground that works for me and my relationships. That way, I was able to at least come halfway forward, if not entirely.
2. Cultivating Empathy
Both partners must actively cultivate empathy. Understanding and appreciating the other’s perspective, even if it differs significantly, fosters a compassionate environment for growth.
Let me say just this: not just partners, but any relationship, for that matter, has to understand and cultivate empathy. We awakened beings were destined to take this path, and not all might have met themselves as much as we have met ourselves. We get to do what we want to do on this path, and I think we must be grateful for that and focus on truth and only ‘truth’.
3. Seeking professional guidance
In situations where challenges seem insurmountable, seeking the guidance of a relationship counsellor or therapist can provide a neutral and supportive space for both partners.
Spiritual Awakening and Self-Discovery
At the core of spiritual awakening lies a profound connection to the authentic self. The journey involves shedding ego-driven identities and embracing vulnerability. This process of self-discovery not only impacts the individual but also influences the dynamics of relationships.
Balancing individual growth and relationship dynamics is not an easy task. Supporting a partner’s journey of self-discovery while fostering mutual evolution within the relationship is crucial. The recognition of each other’s authenticity forms the cornerstone of a relationship thriving amidst the winds of transformation.
To sum up…
As we navigate the depths of spiritual awakening, let us celebrate the journey, and let’s not forget to embrace the evolving self. Let’s foster connections that align with our authentic truth.
May the exploration of spiritual awakening be a source of continual growth, compassion, and a profound connection to oneself.
FAQs on Spiritual Awakening
1. How do you know you are spiritually awakened?
Recognising spiritual awakening involves a heightened sense of awareness, inner peace, and a profound connection to the universe. Signs include increased empathy, a deep sense of purpose, and a shift in priorities.
2. How rare is a spiritual awakening?
Spiritual awakening is a deeply personal journey that occurs at different points in an’ individual’s life. While it may not be rare, the awareness and recognition of the awakening experience can vary widely.
3. How long do spiritual awakenings last?
The duration of a spiritual awakening is subjective and varies for each individual. It may be a gradual process or occur in distinct phases, with ongoing growth and transformation.
4. What’s the end result of spiritual awakening?
The end result of spiritual awakening is a profound transformation of the self. It leads to a deeper understanding of one’s purpose, increased compassion, and a sense of interconnectedness with the world.
5. How do I start my spiritual awakening?
Initiating a spiritual awakening involves self-reflection, mindfulness practices, and an openness to exploring new perspectives. It often begins with a desire for personal growth and a willingness to embrace change.
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Until next time,
Love, light, and endless inspiration to all.
Neethu.
